It’s that time of the year when the drink is flowing and you very often get to kiss girls or guys you wouldn’t normally, so if you get the chance give your partner a kiss to remember.
Why is it someone can give a kiss that makes there partner melt yet another can leave them cold?
Let’s find out with some tips guaranteed to make you partner melt and want more.
1. Kissing involves the whole body
Kissing is not simply about putting your tongue in your partner’s mouth, there is much more to it than that.
A kiss should be an expression of affection from your whole body.
When you kiss make sure your body language is correct and the way to do this is to relax.
When you hold your partner she will feel if you are relaxed, if you are like a stiff dead weight passion can’t flow, so relax and dot be self conscious.
When you go to kiss her move your body close and hold her gently.
The main point to remember is:
2. Kissing is a two way action
When you kiss move slowly at first and then start to be explore your partner’s mouth with your tongue use a firm tongue and start to alternate between slower and stronger moves.
The point to keep in mind is for a kiss to be successful you both need to enjoy it. Everyone likes to be kissed in a different way i.e. some like soft slow kissing others like more wild action and you need to find out.
When you kiss your partner you will find out how she likes it by her reaction to you and you can simply follow the lead and she will do the same with you.
Kissing is an inter action between two people and should flow naturally if you are both relaxed.
3. Surprise & Variety
The way to make a kiss memorable is not to let your partner know exactly what is coming next. If she is expecting you to kiss her hard slow down and be gentle – Make her wait and tease her.
Try slow and quick movements hard and soft etc and always make sure you do it with:
4. Passion
Passion indicates desire and comes from within. If you are relaxed and follow your heart you will be lost in the kiss.
Kissing is one of the most intimate gestures humans can make and it’s a fact that 90% of women and a similar amount of men wished there partner paid more attention to it.
5. Kissing stopping and starting
You can’t simply kiss continuously; you need to breathe so when your lips part use this moment to target a key erogenous zone: The neck.
Kissing the neck and going back to the lips is a real turn on and most people love it. In fact in women it is one of the key erogenous zones.
Another great way to add passion to a kiss is to use your hands.
Not simply to hold your partner but to explore her back – Squeeze her behind rub her back, touch her shoulders and play with her hair – Most women simply adore having there hair played with, so take advantage!
Finally
A kiss is much more than simply touching lips it’s an expression of love, passion and desire.
If you are relaxed you will be lost in the moment and the kiss will flow naturally.
Make sure you relax and use your body, add variety and surprise and whoever you kiss, let them know you’re enjoying it and show plenty of passion.
Kissing is a great physical and emotional experience and is not just for teenagers!
Sacha Tarkovsky
http://www.articlesbase.com/sexuality-articles/french-kissing-kissing-tips-for-a-kiss-to-remember-84489.html
#1 by Urban Force on August 8th, 2009
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What some tips for french kissing?
What are some important things to remember or do?
#2 by Sacagawea'spride on August 8th, 2009
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It’s gross.
Bleck, I almost threw up and smacked my boyfriend when he did that.
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#3 by jennayyy on August 8th, 2009
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okay so making out is not just simply repetitive kissing, there are alot more components to it, like tongue and such. its a little complicated and possibly overwhelming at first but once you get a hang of it its simple and easy. theres not just one way to be a good kisser, you have to find what works best for you and your partner but you also want to be carful because there are also many ways to be a bad kisser.
you have to find your style on your own but heres some tips to get you started…(mostly i just copied and pasted from the internet but there mostly accurate)
. Brush your teeth, get a good bath, nicely groomed and clean and fresh, before meeting the other person. There’s nothing worse than kissing the rear end of a garbage truck
2. Get into a comfortable position – you can’t kiss if your back feels like it’s gonna break. Suggestion – Sit side by side on a comfy sofa.
3. Hold your lover , firmly but gently – don’t cause pain. Suggestion would be to hold the shoulders, the neck or gently on the side of the face, one side or both sides.
4. Move your faces closer. Don’t bump noses. Suggestion would be the guy angle his face slightly so you don’t bump noses.
5. Kiss gently, normal closed lips kissing, and close your eyes. Closing your eyes increases the sensations you feel, and also sets the mood.
6. Continue kissing gently. Get comfortable with simple closed lips, lip-to-lip kissing before going anywhere else.
7. If fine till here, tentatively, slowly and lightly draw your tongue across the other person’s lips.
8. Chances are from here, if the other person lightly parts her tongue, slowly explore the other person’s tongue in a light licking motion.
9. The tongue has a very sensitive surface, which is why tongue to tongue is the essence of french kissing.
10. After you’ve tried lightly licking the other person’s tongue, you can try sucking on it, wrestling with it ( see if you can hold it to the floor of her mouth ) and other things like that.
11. Explore the other areas of the mouth. Especially the roof of the mouth. Lightly lick, or tickle the area with your tongue.
12. Don’t bite. whatever you do, don’t bite.
13. Don’t swing your tongue round and round like a windmill. Explore lightly, don’t drill your way through.
14. Breathe through your nose. Breathe through your nose. I say again, breathe through your nose.
15. Follow so far? You can lightly use your hands too, lightly rubbing the other person. Suggestions, along the waist, along the back, the arms, especially the inside of the arm, the neck, maybe running your fingers through her hair. Again, don’t cause pain.
16. Continue kissing.
kissing is something really wonderful and very fun. and probably you will forget about what you’re doing latest by step 6 or 7. you will be surprised how naturally it comes to you. you can just do it. just keep the tips (above) in mind. and dont lick your lips before… it get’s a bit messy anyways… so there is no need. it’s good that he already has some experience so he can guide you. have lots of fun,
*Approach for the kiss.*
Approach slowly and smoothly. Depending on your starting position you may need only to turn your head, or you may need to lean in a bit. You may want to use your hands to gently urge your partner’s body or head into position—you just want to guide his or her movement a little, you don’t want to forcibly move any part of his or her body or hold your partner in an uncomfortable position—but in general you just want to position yourself correctly and let your partner meet you. As you near your partner’s lips, maintain eye contact. You may want to close your eyes after your lips meet to heighten the sensuality of the kiss (and to avoid staring at the pores on his or her face).
*Kiss gently.*
There are many kinds of kisses, from quick pecks to sweet, passionate kisses. There’s a time and place for all of these, but your first kiss with someone should be gentle and romantic. Don’t press your mouth onto your partner’s–just let your lips meet–and don’t try to push your tongue into his or her mouth. When your lips meet, pucker them and give a kiss, then smile and pull away a little, keeping your head close to your partner’s. If your partner moves to kiss you back or seems to like it and doesn’t pull away, go in for another kiss, this one a little firmer and longer. Put your hands on their face or around their shoulders.
*Make the kiss the reason for the kiss.*
Some people seem to treat kisses as nothing more than a prelude to something else, and will try to quickly move into French kissing. Good kissers concentrate on the kiss, and they kiss, at least seemingly, expecting nothing more. Enjoy the experience, and don’t move too fast. Live in the moment. You will not kiss as well if your mind is somewhere else. For example, when kissing, try to avoid thoughts like "What is he/she thinking about?", "Do I look good tonight?", or
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